In order for a man to have a sexual interest in the opposite sex, it is absolutely not necessary to create a romantic atmosphere with candles. This can happen anywhere, anytime. Erotic backgrounds can appear unexpectedly during work, a walk in the woods, or casual conversation.
To the question: "How to understand that a man is aroused? "- any girl will confidently answer that it is noticeable by an erection. In fact, things are not as primitive as they seem. Psychologists confirm that the desire to possess a woman betrays the appearance, facial expressions, body movements of a man. Speech can only convey the information that one person wants to convey to another, and the face and body will convey the true feeling and state of a passionate man.
To understand that a man is aroused, there are certain signs.
The most proven and accurate way to check if a guy is aroused is to look at his pants just below the waist, or even better, by touching his hands.
An erection is the dominant sign of male sexual arousal. At the time of blood flow to the head of the penis, the male organ hardens. In this case, the internal pressure may coincide with the arterial pressure, which allows the organ to deform and increase in size.
There are times when, with emotional sexual arousal, an erection does not occur. This is a sign of vascular disease, diabetes mellitus, psychological stress or stress.
Non-verbal signals
There are few non-verbal body signals that are better than any words to tell about a man's sexual state.
- During the conversation, the man begins to subconsciously move closer to the object of his attention. And gradually the distance between the bodies must be reduced. Then a light touch of the hands and feet will follow. This movement will not require active action, it is almost imperceptible. But this is how a new love story can begin.
- If a woman is nearby, the man wants to touch her, hug her. But by chance circumstances did not allow this, and he tried to occupy his hands: buttoning and unbuttoning his collar, fiddling with his tie, twisting the buttons, smoothing and ruffling his hair, pulling on his jacket. With enough passion, the young man wants his partner to know. A man can get excited when he touches his hands or other parts of the body, straightens a woman's hair, seeks reciprocal glances, while leaning literally close. Therefore, do not be surprised when a man who seems calm suddenly begins to actively help out of the car or service the coat. Everything is understandable: playful participatory gestures are another way to touch the object you are interested in. When sexual arousal comes, the man begins to automatically stroke and twist in his hand an object that falls into his hand, which is cylindrical. Be it pens, glasses, etc. This is no longer a signal, but a decisive attraction.
Dating stage
If a man expresses sexual sympathy for a woman, then he will definitely point this out by his behavior. If the meeting took place in a restaurant, then he would fill wine glasses, and offer snacks, and help to sit on chairs, and rise from them. He will do all this not only thanks to a good upbringing, but his actions will be guided by the instincts of the masculine principle - to get additional opportunities to touch the object of his desire. This expression of concern indicated that the young man was planning breakfast together.
Pose of a man
Seeing a sexually attractive girl, the inner switch of the female conqueror switches to the "alpha male" position. And here begins the movements that will tell about a man's interest: quick pulling of the stomach, alignment of the back (a hint of good physical form), turning of the shoulders, in a sitting position, raising the legs . Such an attitude, as it were, shows that he has something to offer a woman.
Moreover, in front of the subject of his adoration, the man tries to appear in a favorable light. He straightened, pulled in his stomach, straightened his chest.
Sometimes signs of new arousal can be read by touching the face (nose, chin, ears). Women also have such movements. They betray joy. And touching the lips or licking them firmly hints at the sexual undertones of this manipulation.
Physical reaction
- Rapid breathing, dilated pupils, open lips, slightly hoarse voice - these are conditional signals that the male mind is working in a certain direction.
- The slightly widened nostrils seem to pick up on the scent of the female, which shows clear sympathy.
- At the same time, thirst appears, which is associated with an increase in body temperature.
- You can see the red blush on the cheeks.
- Touching the chin, nose, ears. According to psychologists, by stimulating this zone, the man tries to hide the nervousness of the reflexes and autoerotic symptoms. When stimulated, facial skin becomes very sensitive to touch.
- When a man is possessed by lust, he loses control of his gaze and speech. With blurry, flushed and pale vision, even the most sane man began to carry such nonsense that a girl might doubt his abilities. It's simple - at this time, information is processed which is not sent to the brain at all.
- A sign of an excited state will also be a diversion of the topic of conversation towards intimacy. Erotic associations may arise in him when discussing everyday and everyday matters.
Every man will be aroused by visual imagery. So that a woman does not have to monitor her erection all the time and listen to her partner's breath, for fear of missing out on the moment of incipient excitement, it is worth learning to attract a man's interest and attract his attention.
And in conclusion, a little advice - during the game of love, do not turn off the lights, because a young man, not seeing a girl, will not be aroused enough, and he will not know if he is ready for sexual exploitation .